The Hartley Sentinel-The Everly/Royal News - Serving O'Brien & Clay Counties

As we venture through COVID-19 and tiptoe among the guidelines and uncertainty, we are finding solace and much joy in our quality family time.

We try to see our "Grandma and Grandpa Greats" once a week and we usually see my in-laws and parents once a week, if not every other week. We understand that many don't have this important and blessed luxury, so we do not take it for granted and try to make the most of our time with one another.

During our visits with our "Greats" we bring along two books that I ordered months ago. They are fill-in-the-blank books that you have your grandparents fill out. We utilize these amazing books to have the great-grandchildren ask their great-grandparents about their lives. Many times, I take over when the kids are ready to go run and play with their bubbles, but regardless we are learning so much about these wonderful people that we hold so dear.

Many of the questions are heritage based: "What was your relationship like with your parents?" "What stories do you remember your parents telling you about their upbringing?" "What traditions do you remember from your childhood?" "What was your mother's most delicious dish?"

Other questions helped paint a story of their life: "What is your favorite memory from your childhood?" "What was your favorite class and teacher?" "What did you find difficult growing up and how did you overcome it?" "Who was your best friend?" "What was your favorite past-time?"

One book is geared towards Grandma Great and the other towards Grandpa Great. We ask them the questions and we fill in a half of a page to nearly a full page of information, stories and details that they cherish thus we will cherish. We learn new things and sometimes laugh as we reminisce again over familiar stories.

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A picture of the Frick family record, with beautiful artistry and penmanship.

This week Grandma Great took out pictures of her ancestors along with a few of Grandpa's, complete with beautifully ornate baptismal certificates written in German with art that deserves to be framed. The penmanship on each was worthy of compliment.

To learn of the past of our grandparents and great-grandparents is without a doubt one of the greatest perks of slowing down and relishing each moment. To appreciate our past and the pasts of those we love is a great gift and one that I am thankful we are embracing during our "COVID-Porch-Visits."

I highly encourage everyone that's able to do the same. If the pandemic has taught us anything it is that we should focus on what is most important in life, understanding that life is fleeting. Making each second count while living life to the fullest, keeping those we love closest to us. May you be surrounded by your loved ones and have a blessed and beautiful rest of your week, friends.

Sentinel-News contributor Iesha Toft lives in Royal.